Day 130 - Change

Change doesn't happen through force and berating. Change happens with time, compassion, and a story. If you want someone to see your side and to be open to change, you have to be trustworthy first. I'm always amazed at the harsh words people use when they are trying to pull people to a side on a highly debatable issue. I can't hear your opinion over the stab you put in my heart. Over the way you just cut me down. But gentle words and a compassionate heart can be heard between even the most disagreeable sides.

Reckless words pierce like a sword,
but the tongue of the wise brings healing. 
- Proverbs 12:18